tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post3632884149409852754..comments2024-03-05T19:29:18.578-07:00Comments on ARE THEY ALL YOURS?!??: Breastfeeding and ModestyZsuzsannahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03062136377263894876noreply@blogger.comBlogger82125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-30557066906374077732020-07-24T05:22:15.482-07:002020-07-24T05:22:15.482-07:00Proverbs 5:15-20
15 Drink waters out of thine own ...Proverbs 5:15-20<br />15 Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well.<br /><br />16 Let thy fountains be dispersed abroad, and rivers of waters in the streets.<br /><br />17 Let them be only thine own, and not strangers' with thee.<br /><br />18 Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.<br /><br />19 Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.<br /><br />20 And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger? Anonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-1413244714898486892019-07-08T08:59:03.589-07:002019-07-08T08:59:03.589-07:00Hi.. I’m not sure where to ask this so I’m just go...Hi.. I’m not sure where to ask this so I’m just going to ask here.. I am looking for a mentor. Is there any way you could help me? I have 4 children but I’m a little new to all the Christian life! I didn’t know hardly anything until a year and a half ago! Any chance you have any suggestions? DavisClan6118https://www.blogger.com/profile/16022332765524895593noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-59150812421708742612019-04-08T02:04:13.247-07:002019-04-08T02:04:13.247-07:00Anon, nursing your kid in public is not being &quo...Anon, nursing your kid in public is not being "naked" in public. The author is right, nursing was considered normal before and should be now. Should breasts always be exposed? No. Should a nursing mom whip out her breasts carelessly when trying to nurse in public? No, but look at the photos of Zsuzsanna here; she's not covering with a blanket, she's nursing where she wants to and you can't see a thing. That's natural, healthy and modest.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04905272108326085380noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-48384271823502225512017-03-28T10:58:45.440-07:002017-03-28T10:58:45.440-07:00Anyone who says that it is okay to sit partially n...Anyone who says that it is okay to sit partially naked flashing their breasts and nipples in front of other women's husbands is unaware and is lacking discernment. Breastfeeding is wonderful, natural, and the most healthy choice for your baby. However, in the society we live in today breasts are sexual. I'm not okay with a women showing her breasts in front of my husband, and I am not okay with showing mine in front of men other than my husband. I think it is disrespectful,and unnecessary. When I breastfed my children I did it privately by covering up, or being in a private room with my baby. Did it make it more challenging? Yes, but I prefer to be respectful of others around me while still providing for my baby's needs. I believe in modesty. It surprises me that Christian women would feel it's okay to be naked in public in today's society with the way things are now. Pornography is all over the place- internet, magazines, movies, etc. People think differently than they did 100 years ago let's say. Breasts are seen as sexual not as a means for food anymore. Pornography and the invention of the bottle changed all of that. And it is untrue that only a tiny slit of skin is shown throughout the process of breastfeeding during latching on, repositioning, changing sides, etc. let's be honest much more than that is shown. I'm not comfortable with showing all of that to people for any reason, or watching it, or my husband, or my children seeing it. No thanks! As a Christian in today's society I believe modesty is best. We need to keep our breasts to ourselves, babies, and husbands, that all. If you feel uncomfortable exposing your breasts in front of people while breastfeeding you should pray about it because that could be the Lord convicting you, and I wouldn't fight that and just do it anyways.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-26730249742250546642017-02-07T15:42:00.831-07:002017-02-07T15:42:00.831-07:00You might want to consider Ezekiel 16:7.You might want to consider Ezekiel 16:7.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-66471213700120464642015-12-12T05:53:54.804-07:002015-12-12T05:53:54.804-07:00I don't really think little girls wearing biki...I don't really think little girls wearing bikinis is immodest, myself. Yes, there are pedophiles out there that would be attracted to them, but hopefully the children are protected enough that that would never be an issue. The reason I think it is wise to have little girls wear one piece swimming suits and not two piece swimming suits is because it creates the habit of modesty in preparation for their teenage years.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-18610407134993711612015-11-21T15:26:30.355-07:002015-11-21T15:26:30.355-07:00So many good posts. It seems to me that we all ne...So many good posts. It seems to me that we all need to relax a little. There is a huge difference between nurturing a child and flaunting oneself. It isn't any bigger problem than we choose to make it. God wants us to multiply and be fruitful. We should rejoice in the child and support the mother. If someone is uncomfortable seeing it they should be tolerant. I'm not comfortable changing nasty diapers, but I've changed many. You shouldn't be ashamed to breastfeed. Sometimes we need to take a deep breath and just do it. You will be surprised how quickly your fears disappear. If others are uncomfortable. Show them you are comfortable and they will be also. When people look away they really just don't want to offend you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-64954582470555635742015-10-11T21:46:28.126-07:002015-10-11T21:46:28.126-07:00I agree totally with this comment, especially desc...I agree totally with this comment, especially describing her personality as robotic, and also agree with the "certain to come fall out", especially as her children get older. I hope she's ready for any one of her sons to be judged as harshly as she has judged Josh Duggar. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-29337411863869609812015-10-07T18:12:52.094-07:002015-10-07T18:12:52.094-07:00I say i don't agree. it should be shameful and...I say i don't agree. it should be shameful and uncomfortable to share these moments with the whole world. It makes both men and women feel uncomfortable. its moments that are only for you and baby at home or at least away from prying eyes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-16980879966505061752015-10-07T11:47:56.855-07:002015-10-07T11:47:56.855-07:00Obviously the Bible wont say yeah its okay to have...Obviously the Bible wont say yeah its okay to have your breasts hanging out (since your breastfeeding you can get away with it) personally i think it's shameful to publicly sit there and breast feed. that is something you do away from prying, hateful, or loving eyes. I travel allot and have noticed that allot of European women do that well i could see why because in Europe beaches are topless and people may say yeah that is not nakedness. So what is than? I can see why its totally a norm to have their breasts hanging out and them saying yeah but were breastfeeding like that's suppose to be some excuse with getting away.. 2. allot of moms especially who have allot of kids have no shame and i can she why it is not problem letting themselves go mentally and physically. they are way to comfortable with giving birth so many times and everyone having seen their stuff so for them breastfeeding publicly is a no big deal.(comfortable with nakedness perhaps) but the truth is it makes both men and women feel uncomfortable to see these things traumatizing for bystanders. no one unless your weird would lust over sagging breasts or over a breast feeding women. the Bible does not mention allot of things however common sense is always needed as well as shame. breastfeeding is great since allot of young moms don't know how to or don't have any milk all my friends are pretty modest it's suppose to be a special moment between mom and baby because the baby studies the mom and smells and touches. so that's like an intimate moment you don't want to have other people watching or you making them feel uncomfortable. I know i wouldn't.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-61660762666163840572015-09-27T04:35:38.905-07:002015-09-27T04:35:38.905-07:00If someone "flashed their breasts" at my...If someone "flashed their breasts" at my husband I couldn't care less. Stranger things can and do happen. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-88516009781051264852015-09-27T04:30:19.773-07:002015-09-27T04:30:19.773-07:00JESUIT AGENT? ???
You fool. The "Jesuit"...JESUIT AGENT? ???<br /><br />You fool. The "Jesuit" conspiracy was INVENTED by people who spread disinformation <br />to cover up the Zionest movement.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-73491105941972888422015-09-06T05:18:47.445-07:002015-09-06T05:18:47.445-07:00"By the same token, if women go topless, have..."By the same token, if women go topless, have plunging necklines..."<br /><br />I wish you'd gone a step further to chastise the MEN who go around shirtless as being immodest. You have an entire paragraph against "hooker boots" because they're meant to draw attention to the legs to entice the men who happen to like the look of legs over say the breasts. Well, as a woman, my particular area of interest in a man is the top of the back and pectoral area. Strong arms are hot. Now, when fit guys go walking around shirtless, I like looking at them! They're hot! Can't I blame them for not wearing a shirt (or wearing a tight fitting shirt that accentuates their physique) for my lusting after them?!?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-60108393830394300842015-07-25T08:45:17.945-07:002015-07-25T08:45:17.945-07:00OH MY GOSH! These pictures are beautiful. I got ...OH MY GOSH! These pictures are beautiful. I got here through your youtibe video about pronouncing Zsuzsanna. My middle name is Sue after my mom's aunt, whom they called Aunt Sue. But the family was from Hungary and her original name was Zsuzsanna. I always wished I got that instead! But, they were very into assimilating back then...so, that's what I got!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07576703762926961398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-3576149191839386532015-07-24T03:27:18.593-07:002015-07-24T03:27:18.593-07:00Wow lady. You need help.Wow lady. You need help.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-43963392910151570822015-07-24T03:25:46.151-07:002015-07-24T03:25:46.151-07:00Whoa. I think you need to get your issues under co...Whoa. I think you need to get your issues under control! I'm sure no one's the least bit interested in flashing their breasts to YOUR husband. FYI I have read Solomon. I don't think I'm getting the same message out of it you are though. It's not really an ode to breasts around the world or anything...<br /><br />If someone fed a baby in front of my husband I wouldn't give it a second thought. And honestly, I don't think he'd give it much thought either. He's faced with far more gratuitous nudity on probably an hourly basis since he works at an airline and thousands pass through the gates every hour.<br />Are you the type to pitch a fit whenever you perceive your husband glancing over at some poor woman?<br /><br />Maybe you need to stay home.<br /><br />Also it's "hypocrisy".Pacific diamondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16488603490542472873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-24211420202195928542015-07-24T00:42:03.236-07:002015-07-24T00:42:03.236-07:00Time for your pills Anon@4amTime for your pills Anon@4amPacific diamondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16488603490542472873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-49401460057753865462015-07-04T15:59:54.434-07:002015-07-04T15:59:54.434-07:00Isaias 47:2-3 does define the bosom as nakedness. ...Isaias 47:2-3 does define the bosom as nakedness. When referring to the united states (Babylon) under the figure of a woman it says " (2)Take a millstone and grind meal: uncover thy shame, strip thy shoulder, make bare thy legs, pass over the rivers.(3)Thy nakedness shall be discovered, and thy shame shall be seen: I will take vengeance, and no man shall resist me." When it says "strip thy shoulder, make bare thy legs" in verse 2: it is called nakedness in verse 3. So even legs are nakedness. <br /><br />The Bible calls St. John naked because he was only clothed in his undergarments (St. MK. 14:50-52). The Bible calls St. King David naked because he was stripped of his regal garments (2 Kings 6:20). The parallel verse - 1 Paralipomenon 15:27-29 - states St. King David was wearing garments when he danced before the Ark: though not his regal garments. Thus Michol looked upon him as if he were naked: as King would look if he appeared in pajamas. In Isaias 20:2 Isaias took off his sackloth and shoes even though it does not say he took off his under garments since all wore them. The fact that he was without his upper garment (i.e. was barechested) was considered nakedness in the public. He was insufficiently or poorly clothed. In St. John 21:7 the Bible calls St. Peter naked for only wearing a swimsuit and not having his outer garments since it was improper docorum to be in the presence of the God-Man in that fashion. <br /><br /><br />It was sinful for you to say that "breasts" can be used by women to "satisfy their husband's righteous desires." That place of the body was created only for infants to feed and not to satisfy lust. Lust is not righteous. According to your reasoning that the aforementioned part of the body is not nakedness and is therefore a neutral body part like eyes or the face etc then it is fine for women - as is perversely allowed in the city of New York - to walk outside without being dressed from the waist up. If you arbitrarily say that women who do such things have a sinful intention then logically you would have to extend that reasoning to other neutral places of the body like the eye or face. <br /><br /><br />As for being unshod (i.e. being barefoot) in public: prior to the early 1920s it was viewed as obscene and an indecency in the united states and was a taboo. So in order to promote communism in the US: North American born sodomite women decided to dance unshod in theatres provided by Kuhn, Loeb & Co and other Jewish companies. Wild/sodomite women like Angela Isadora Duncan a communist follower of Aleister Crowley (who actually met her) and Maud Allan in her blasphemous dance called 'Salome' (where she reenacts the dance of the woman who beheaded St. John the Baptist) shocked theatregoers when she was unshod and it represented a decline of morality. Her brother was a Baptist leader who enageged in Satanic blood sacrifices of animals and always poured the blood on himself in brothels- before fornicating with the prostitutes. He was hanged for a double murder mutilation of females and was even nicknamed "The Demon of Belfry." It is notable that in the early 20th century close to the 1920s being unshod became acceptable and so did women wearing pants and so did feminism: though the public itself did not practice it in large numbers until the 1960s. <br /><br />In ancient Palestine it was a common custom for house servants to untie the shoes and wash the foot of guests. It was a common courtesy since the road was dusty. Then the guests were given some refreshments to eat or drink. The God-Man and the 12 Apostles were unshod just in their traveling as a sign of humility and poverty. Certain Religious Orders have their members unshod in order to remind them not to be attached to the goods of this world. Certain other virtuous people make vows to do this. Outside of these few exceptions: being unshod (especially in public) is generally to be avoided in the united states: given its particular history and how it was viewed as perverted and evil back when moral standards were decent.<br /><br />follower of URL i just gavehttp://www.vaticancatholic.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-82246352546310974272015-07-02T08:19:41.214-07:002015-07-02T08:19:41.214-07:00Zsuzsanna, your hypocracy knows no bounds. You are...Zsuzsanna, your hypocracy knows no bounds. You are saying that a woman should be modest and cover up out of 1 side of your mouth, and then proceed to try and justify whipping out a breast whenever and wherever, and even post pics of woman bare breasted on your blog! Just because something is natural, doesn't mean it should be done in public. I managed to breast feed in the Phoenix heat without any problems whatsoever. You are trying to say that a woman's breasts should not be looked upon in a sexual or sensual manner by a man as long as they only see them when you are breastfeeding?! Really? Have you read the Song of Solomon? Obviously men ARE attracted to womens breasts. That is perfectly natural. As natural as breastfeeding. It doesn't make a man a pervert, it makes him a man. No righteous man would act upon that with any woman other than his wife, but he'll look just the same. If you can't find a discreet out of the way place to feed your baby, why don't you just stay home. I don't want you flashing your breasts in front of MY husband any more than you want me flashing mine in front your husband.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-18409710660284926072015-07-02T04:41:01.195-07:002015-07-02T04:41:01.195-07:00I suspect you have too much time on your hands. T...I suspect you have too much time on your hands. The idea that the Andersons are government agents is ludicrous and to suggest they are Jesuit shows you know absolutely nothing about Jesuits. Why don't you take the peace and wisdom offered in this blog and let them bless you, rather than looking for conspiracies that exist only in your mind? <br /><br />in His peace,<br />MiriamAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-41855713261647597082015-06-30T20:22:18.308-07:002015-06-30T20:22:18.308-07:00Your nursing pics are very modest. All those other...Your nursing pics are very modest. All those other pics of women with their breast exposed while nursing could have easily pulled things closed and covered. I don't think its right to just let it hang out. I do think it's totally normal and natural to nurse whenever needed, but there are ways to easily cover more of the breast while doing so without having to use a cover blanket.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-8798074987399227652015-06-28T04:00:39.902-07:002015-06-28T04:00:39.902-07:00I follow your blog for years now, and after much t...I follow your blog for years now, and after much thinking I have come to the conclusion that there is something false about your husband and especially you. Your overconfidence comes across very robotical to me, as if you have been programmed to say what you are saying in the way you are saying it. The christian life is full of questioning, asking, sometimes being confused or even unsure where we are standing with God, as we can see from the characters in the Old and New Testament. Even the prophets, who heard directly from God, sometimes doubted if they were going in the right direction or if they should continue prophecying due to the persecution and hardships they experienced. <br /><br />You and your husband always try to come across as people who have it all together and who have all the answers, despite your rather young age. At the same time you are heartless, void of emotion (other than that which you display in regards to your children) and somehow not acting like a human. As I said, you come across robotical, mechanical, cold, not as a person of flesh and blood. <br /><br />This is rather unusual and therefore I would not be surprised if you are some gouvernment or Jesuit agent. This is the only explanation I have. Perhaps you don't even know that you are an agent due to trauma based mind control and resulting split personality. Perhaps you should look into this.<br /><br />What would be the plan behind this? I could imagine that you rise to some christian celebrity status and than there will be a planned out fall, extremely deep and ugly, convincing the public that christians are hypocrites and cannot be trusted, which would then result in very serious persecution. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-45946449093125865522015-06-27T03:24:45.701-07:002015-06-27T03:24:45.701-07:00It always makes me happy when I find common ground...It always makes me happy when I find common ground with someone I regularly disagree with (I would describe myself as a non-religious eco-femanist. I have always been a supporter of breastfeeding and have felt that the insistence to cover or remove yourself comes from (and perpetuates) the culture of sexualisation of women. <br /><br />I also agree that when the bible discuss "modesty " it is not about how much of you is covered but rather about not "showing off" or drawing attention to yourself. Modesty could be considered as a partner quality to Humility. One could completely cover themselves with a sheet but if they do it in order to draw attention to themselves it would be immodest. <br /><br />I have a question that many of your readers may like your take on:<br /><br />When my eldest was a baby, we spent the summer visiting my inlaws (in Budapest). My father-in-law was uncomfortable with me breastfeeding and would leave the room when I did but never commented. I felt awkward for making him uncomfortable in his own home but as we had ttravelled so far to be with family (and to have them spend time with the new baby) that it wouldn't make sense to remove ourselves from the rest of the family for up to an hour about 4 times a day. Coming together to eat is an incredibly bonding activity (it is even one of the the few ceremonial activities that Jesus instructed his followers to do) and removing ourselves ourselves to eat seemed counterproductive to our purposes in creating family bonds.<br /><br />How would you have handed it? <br /><br />I would also be interested in your opinion on Modest Fashion Blogs which seems to be a bit of a trend among young Christian woman. While they may have their bodies covered, they are drawing attention to themselves, their clothing and their bodies. In an addition there is an element of showing off for being so very virtuous which is neither humble nor modest.Jen Lawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14281659620915041416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-56020623710296680742015-06-26T04:01:56.151-07:002015-06-26T04:01:56.151-07:00Let's just make things simple and stop shaming...Let's just make things simple and stop shaming mothers - all mothers - when they are feeding their baby...however they are feeding their baby. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3454355557116314654.post-22682874033336740212015-06-24T05:53:58.647-07:002015-06-24T05:53:58.647-07:00Hi Zsu,
I was wondering where you found the infor...Hi Zsu,<br /><br />I was wondering where you found the information about hormones and nursing covers - I've never seen it before. I've always read that how soon you start menstruating again has to do with how long between nursing sessions - so people who don't co-sleep and train their children to sleep through the night very quickly would have their periods return quickly. This has been the case for me, I've never started ovulating again until my babies go through the night without nursing. Is there more information about how nursing covers affect these hormones? I tried to find it myself but could not.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com